Saturday, November 28, 2009

Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

I'm a white female and when I hit puberty, my pretty lose curly hair turned into a monster. It turned curly in a different way. It was super curly and it was an afro- worse than an afro. It looked horrible and my mother would't let me leave the house without going to a professional and straightening it. I've gone to a professional once a week- had them wash and straighten it. I don't wash it only once a week when I'm at a salon. I simply cannot wear it curly. I tried once and got some horrible comments about it- which made me extremely depressed. When I look in the mirror and see my hair not straightened and a big poof ball- it's not me. Going to the salon once a week is getting to be too much and my hair has made me think some really dark thoughts about life. I must always carry a jacket with me- even in the summer because if my hair gets wet- It gets extremely frizzy and dry. But, when my hair is straight and non frizzy- it is smooth and silky. How can I wear my hair natural?



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

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Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

Try a relaxer. Grow your hair longer, the shorter it is, the kinkier it'll be. Use extra conditioner, a leave in conditioner, mousse and styling gel. Blow dry your hair on cool.



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

Have you tried de=frizzing products. Have you tried a really good stylist to cut it to go with the curls? I would love some curls. Too bad we can't share my stick straight do nothing hair with yours.



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

you can just permanently straiten it once and you wont have to do it again.



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

You can get it permanently relaxed. I think you will be much happier. It's like the reverse of the perm. Of course as the roots come in you'll have to get it touched up, but that's the same hassle as people who dye their hair... once a month or a little less beats once a week, right?



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

Don't feel bad. It is the hair you were given, and I'm sure there are many ways out there that can help make it more manageable. There are a lot of products that defrizz. You can find a lot at the typical grocery store, but you should also check out beauty stores. Ex: Sally beauty stores, Ulta stores. They have tons of hair products. Also, check out ceramic irons. Some of those are inexpensive but go a long way.



I checked out some web sites online that you could possibly utilize for advice on what to use and what not to use.



www.handbag.com/hair/haircare



www.make-upusa.com/tips/haircare.htm



Hope this helps at least a little bit.



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

Im sure your hair has changed since puberty but relax yourself along with your hair:) there are so many ways to have your hair straightned and there are also very many ways to wear it curly .Curly hair is absolutely beautiful once you learn the many ways to wear it . try these when you want to wear it curly... frizz ease or bio silk and if you want have your hair pemanently straightned it does not cost alot and it lasts about 3 months good luck



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

you should just buy a ceramic straightener or curler.. they are easy to use and just let the iron part of it smooth out your hair



theyll help



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

It sounds pretty uncomtrolable but you should ask your stylist about it. Or you could try this: http://www.napturalglory.com/thebush.htm...



I know its a website for African Americans but it sounds like thats the kind of texture your hair has.



**** Luck!



Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

No your hair can be helped.



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Try a relaxer. Grow your hair longer, the shorter it is, the kinkier it'll be. Use extra conditioner, a leave in conditioner, mousse and styling gel. Blow dry your hair on cool.



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Have you tried de=frizzing products. Have you tried a really good stylist to cut it to go with the curls? I would love some curls. Too bad we can't share my stick straight do nothing hair with yours.



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you can just permanently straiten it once and you wont have to do it again.



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You can get it permanently relaxed. I think you will be much happier. It's like the reverse of the perm. Of course as the roots come in you'll have to get it touched up, but that's the same hassle as people who dye their hair... once a month or a little less beats once a week, right?



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Don't feel bad. It is the hair you were given, and I'm sure there are many ways out there that can help make it more manageable. There are a lot of products that defrizz. You can find a lot at the typical grocery store, but you should also check out beauty stores. Ex: Sally beauty stores, Ulta stores. They have tons of hair products. Also, check out ceramic irons. Some of those are inexpensive but go a long way.



I checked out some web sites online that you could possibly utilize for advice on what to use and what not to use.



www.handbag.com/hair/haircare



www.make-upusa.com/tips/hairca...



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Im sure your hair has changed since puberty but relax yourself along with your hair:) there are so many ways to have your hair straightned and there are also very many ways to wear it curly .Curly hair is absolutely beautiful once you learn the many ways to wear it . try these when you want to wear it curly... frizz ease or bio silk and if you want have your hair pemanently straightned it does not cost alot and it lasts about 3 months good luck



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you should just buy a ceramic straightener or curler.. they are easy to use and just let the iron part of it smooth out your hair



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It sounds pretty uncomtrolable but you should ask your stylist about it. Or you could try this: http://www.napturalglory.com/thebush.htm...



I know its a website for African Americans but it sounds like thats the kind of texture your hair has.



**** Luck!



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Is my hair that bad that it can't be fixed?

I had this issue too. It can be very consuming. That's all I thought about. I decided when I was 14 that I wasn't going to deal with my hair anymore, so I had it cut short in a pixie style. My mom was against it since most young girls don't have short hair and i 'd stand out. But you know what? I already felt self concious , you know? And I looked and felt great. I could wear my hair curly without it being puffy. The key is getting hair texturized and thinned. Thick haired girls should ALWAYS have layers to avoid the rectangle look and it has to be thinned.



Now I have a bob cut and straighten it myself with a T3 flat iron.



So, I have worn it curly and short and medium and straight.



There is hope for you, take people's opinions with a grain of salt and do what makes you happy...IT REALLY IS A PERSONAL DECISION WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR HAIR!



lots of luck;)

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